Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Mr. Saturday, part 2

After my last post, and sending the email to Mr. Saturday, some new information has come to light. First of all, he did not respond to my email at all. While checking my Facebook today, it listed on my page that he had changed his status to "in a relationship", with a female "friend" adding a smushy comment after it.
Wow, really? Just like that? He met this girl over the weekend, and just fell head over heels for her and decided to be in a "relationship" with her? OK...Thats fine, it can happen like that. I'm all for "love at first sight", and wish it would happen to me. What really just pisses me off about this whole thing is that he didn't have the balls to just tell me.
It was safe to assume that he had found a better option than me, when he stopped talking to me a few days ago. All I needed to know was that he decided move on. Why keep a girl hanging on, wondering what happened?
This is not the first time this has happened to me. I've had many a guy just stop talking to me after one date, two dates... weeks, hell... even a 5 month relationship! And I'm always left wondering... was it me? was it something I did? I will never know in most cases.
This time, I'm walking away thinking... he went with a better option. I'm not saying that this woman is better than me, oh-hell no! Just that she was better for him right now.
I'm right for someone, somewhere.....sometime. I just hope that time is soon!


  1. Try not to take it personally...some people are better matches than others.

    He still, however, owed you an explanation, however brief, in my opinion. Just not saying anything is totally not cool.

  2. Unbelievable.
    This happens far more than it should.
    I hope you left a big, fat, juicy comment on his FB page telling him how awesome and exciting you are for him.

  3. He sounds like a douche. You can definitely do better!

  4. Wow. That is such a shitty way of doing things. I recently had a girlfriend who told me she wanted to take "a break to work on things"... took me a while to realize she was just dumping me without giving me an option to discuss it. B/

  5. Hun, he obviously didn't understand you anyway. Otherwise he would have reconized how graceful and intelligent you were and that you could very obviously handle a simple heads up with class and dignity. HE is the loser here - you totally deserve better and will find it. BTW have I told you I totally heart you? cause I do.